Today I wanted to clarify what I mean by FEMININE RISING.
The feminine is clearly rising up to take her rightful place alongside the masculine - within each of us individually, and collectively on a larger scale.
(I say "alongside" very intentionally - because I do not believe in punishing the masculine by overtaking, shaming or suppressing it. We need the healthy expression of both to be in balance. Men have a lot of work to do to release toxic masculinity and embody the healthy masculine. I fully support those doing this type of "men's work" - John Wineland, David Deida, Stefanos Sifandos and others - as it is very needed at this time. I can assure you, there are a whole bunch of men waking up and embracing this work, and it's a beautiful thing. At the same time, we as women have our own work to do, and that's what I am passionate about helping with.)
At the same time, many women are misinformed about the healthy expression of the feminine. What does femininity even mean, and why does it matter?
This is not about women vs. men or the physical bodies we reside in. This is about the expression of two different frequencies found all throughout nature, the yin + the yang, which ideally should be in balance. It's about polarity.
And while we are talking about polar opposites, true integration of both means we can flow along the spectrum, understanding and mastering the healthy expression of both and how they complement each other.
We all have both masculine and feminine energies within us, but the feminine has long been misunderstood + suppressed by both sexes. This can lead to energetic discord, especially for women who tend to have a more innate feminine frequency.
Women have been taught that embodying masculine characteristics is the way to get respect, power, and protection, at the expense of being able to relax and soften into our femininity. Constant striving, doing, and achieving have left us burnt out and unable to experience the bliss of deep receptivity and pleasure.
Many women have achieved great success and financial abundance through relying on masculine principles, but often struggle with burnout, disconnection from their bodies, and an inability to slow down + truly savor what they have accomplished.
There are also some women who appear very feminine on a superficial level, but deep down they are disconnected and/or confused about the true definition of the feminine and have this underlying sense that something is off.
The root of anxiety and depression in women can have many causes, but I believe that a lack of connection to our feminine essence, or shakti, can be an absolute cause in many cases.
Most women also lack the knowledge about polarity in romantic relationships, and may be in a partnership that lacks passion and magnetism, leading to deep levels of dissatisfaction.
I believe that we all have a need to experience deep love and sexual fulfillment, and when this is not being felt, we all have a yearning for something more.
Additionally, both the feminine and the masculine have healthy + toxic ways of expressing themselves. We are currently cleansing the toxicity within both frequencies that has been holding humanity back from true ascension. There is a beautiful divine union that occurs with the honoring and expression of both, the wholeness and true integration of yin + yang.
Through my own reclamation of the feminine, I was able to deeply transform myself and those around me, in addition to attracting the love of my life.
That isn't to say that I live in my feminine 100% of the time. I see and deeply honor both the feminine + masculine within myself, and thoroughly enjoy dancing between the two to experience the full spectrum of life.
Before getting to this place, I was disconnected from my feminine, totally burnt out, holding shame around my body + sexuality, and wasn't at all enjoying the slower, sensual pleasures of life.
Now, after studying the feminine mysteries for the past five years and really embodying the teachings, I have healed on a physical, emotional, mental + spiritual level. I'm living life at a completely different frequency, and everyone around me can see it.
I am now dedicated to helping women reconnect to their feminine, remove layers of internalized misogyny, heal burnout and imbalance, and experience what life can be like to live full spectrum.
My purpose is to help you:
Because I believe that we experience the most profound level of transformation through conscious partnership, which includes sacred sexuality, I have a specific focus on love, sex + relationships in my practice.
I currently offer individual sessions, women's circles, and specific programs for you. Reach out if this resonates.
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Although astrology has evolved over my lifetime from what used to be a more fatalistic approach to one that is more fluid, I still see people drawn to astrology giving far too much of their power away. Just look at Mercury retrograde - people cannot handle it. And when the sun moves into a sign they don't like, it's a bad month all around. This perspective comes from the view that life is happening to them - that they are powerless. Something greater is pulling the puppet strings.
We cannot continue to give our power away to external forces. I believe that astrological events magnify certain energies that we can co-create with, which is incredibly beautiful. Every sign and planet is an archetype reflecting the possibilities of what can unfold for us - as above, so below. If certain signs or astrological happenings rub you the wrong way, it's an opportunity to engage in a deeper inquiry with yourself on why this is the case.
For example, Leo used to be one of my least favorite signs because I thought it was too proud, too boastful. After working with astrology on a deeper level (in addition to gaining maturity) I realized that was because I used to have major social anxiety and hated being in the spotlight. The thought of being loud and seen was not in my realm of possibilities. Now I love Leo for the inspiration + courage it provides. I love expanding my definition of who I am + who I can be in this world.
Along the same lines, beware of being locked into your sun sign, or even your whole chart for that matter. We can amplify whatever qualities we might be lacking in our charts through conscious cultivation. Never allow anything in this world to limit your endless possibility of expression.
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A new resource for everyone:
Lately, I've been helping a lot of individuals get clear on what they want, need, and deserve in romantic relationships, whether they are single or currently in one.
As many of you know, this was a process I also had to go through in order to attract my current partner and love of my life, so I feel VERY passionately about it.
I've developed a formula that works, and I've broken it down into clear, actionable steps for you. Today I created a PDF guide that completely outlines how you also can get clear on what you want, need, and deserve. This guide also provides valuable next steps, whether you are single and looking to manifest the perfect partner, or already have a relationship that you want to take to the next level.
Download it here.
Additionally, for those of you who work through this PDF and are looking for additional support, I'm offering a 90 minute group call this Sunday, August 16th from 3:30 - 5:00 PST over Zoom, so everyone is welcome worldwide. We'll discuss the topic in more detail and I'll answer any questions you may have.
The cost is $15, and if you'd like to join, simply email me to RSVP.
Sending all good things,
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Leigh-Anne Lui is a Los Angeles based psychologist specializing in next-level love, sex + relationships. In 2017, she founded Feminine Rising, a women's community dedicated to reclaiming the feminine. She has a deep desire to help women manifest extraordinary love. Find her on IG @feminine__rising.